I resent having to do anything, sometimes even things I enjoy, because of inertia and/or apprehension. Things seem to be too much trouble. After I get started I may be ok and even enjoy doing the work or activity. Too many things seem like too much effort. Another aspect: If I do whatever needs to be done, I lose.
Its bizarre but I have the same issue with resentment. When it comes to simply chores especially and even worse when its busy work. Even things such as: I want to have a salad but I resent having to chop the veggies or I want to clean up my coffee table but I resent having to do it or I want to put a new curtain in my bedroom to block out all light while I sleep but I resent having to install it!! but like you said, once I get going, I enjoy it usually. I even resent writing this! kidding : ) I'm actually a very passionate person with a great brain in many aspects but what good is competence and ability if you are frozen into inaction? its brutal. : ( especially when you add a nice dose of perfectionism.
I do 1, 2, 5 and the perfection one mentioned above. I'm here doing them all right now rather than write the paper that was due 3 weeks ago! (no, I haven't written a word yet.)
I know what you mean .. you want like the top marks to have accomplished everything . Yet have you realised not doing it makes it really sh1t :(
Gah! i have coursework to hand in today and i havent even started. Also i noticed ive been wishing my tutor doesnt come in ..
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Resentment
I resent having to do anything, sometimes even things I enjoy, because of inertia and/or apprehension. Things seem to be too much trouble. After I get started I may be ok and even enjoy doing the work or activity. Too many things seem like too much effort. Another aspect: If I do whatever needs to be done, I lose.
me too!!
Its bizarre but I have the same issue with resentment. When it comes to simply chores especially and even worse when its busy work. Even things such as: I want to have a salad but I resent having to chop the veggies or I want to clean up my coffee table but I resent having to do it or I want to put a new curtain in my bedroom to block out all light while I sleep but I resent having to install it!! but like you said, once I get going, I enjoy it usually. I even resent writing this! kidding : ) I'm actually a very passionate person with a great brain in many aspects but what good is competence and ability if you are frozen into inaction? its brutal. : ( especially when you add a nice dose of perfectionism.
I do 1, 2, 5 and the
I do 1, 2, 5 and the perfection one mentioned above. I'm here doing them all right now rather than write the paper that was due 3 weeks ago! (no, I haven't written a word yet.)
I want it to be perfect and
I want it to be perfect and know that there is no way it will be perfect so I do not even try.
I know what you mean .. you
I know what you mean .. you want like the top marks to have accomplished everything . Yet have you realised not doing it makes it really sh1t :(
Gah! i have coursework to hand in today and i havent even started. Also i noticed ive been wishing my tutor doesnt come in ..
Me too
Me too